Cecil, Newborn 2021

“Nothing in life will ever make you as happy, as sad, as exhausted, or as incredibly proud as motherhood.”

-Elia Parsons

Our first newborn session of 2021 was as sweet as could be. Cecil entered the world, plump and perfect, and into the arms of his loving parents. Lauren contacted me during her last trimester to photograph him at their home in Thomasville, Georgia once he arrived.

As I do with all my clients, I asked her to send me some photos she had seen that she loved. This was to make sure we were in sync with her vision for their session. When she texted a collection of black and white images, I got giddy with excitement. Black and white photos are some of my favorites. Somehow, I find them soft yet bold. I love them.

Welcome to this wild world, little Cecil.

Light and airy, soft collage of lifestyle newborn photography
Light and airy, soft collage of lifestyle newborn photography

“When you photograph people in color, you photograph their clothes. But when you photograph people in black and white, you photograph their souls.”

Ted Grant
Black and white photo of lifestyle newborn photography, light and airy, soft
Black and white collage of lifestyle newborn photography, light and airy, soft

Sarah Gray Photography is a natural, lifestyle photographer specializing in maternity, newborn, baby, motherhood, and family photography. To inquire about booking your next portrait session, please contact Sarah at sarah@sarahgray.com.

Sarah provides lifestyle photography services in Tallahassee and along the Florida panhandle from St. Marks to Destin, as well as throughout south Georgia, and everywhere else in between.

Here's the framework I share with every family I work with:

The location is the canvas. Your family is the subject. Your clothing is the paint.

Get the paint right, and everything comes together. Rush it, and even a beautiful Tallahassee evening can fall a little flat in the final images.

That doesn't mean you need a stylist or a big budget. It means you need a plan and a few principles that actually hold up in real life - with real kids and real closets.

Start with a neutral base. Creams, tans, soft whites, warm grays. These anchor your palette and keep the focus on faces and connection, which is the whole point.

From there, bring in color intentionally. Neutrals with soft blues. Neutrals with blush or sage. Warmer tones in fall - mauve, khaki, olive - especially at a location like Alford Park, where the foliage does a lot of work for you.

Add texture wherever you can. A knit next to a satin blouse. A linen shirt next to a tweed jacket. Texture creates visual depth in a way that flat, solid fabrics just don't. It's one of those things that reads beautifully in prints and most families don't hear about until someone tells them.

Keep patterns small if you use them at all. A delicate floral, a fine stripe, a subtle check - all great. Large, bold patterns pull focus away from faces, and that's never what we're going for.

Outfit planning is one of the highest-leverage things you can do before your session. I promise it's worth the attention.
Earlier this week, I had the honor to speak to a room full of moms about friendship. Later this week, I was in a living room with a brand new baby. 🤍

Here’s what I told that group of moms: I’m not a friendship expert. But I’ve spent years walking into homes with families I’ve never met, and I’ve learned that the best moments happen when they don’t feel like they have to perform.

For great photos, a mama doesn’t need a perfect house, perfect hair, or a perfectly behaved toddler. She needs to feel safe. So we talk, we laugh, we find common ground, and somewhere along the way she lets her guard down, relaxes a bit and just gets to be herself with her baby.

Friendship works the same way. Find something in common. Say “me too.” Listen. Let someone see your real life.

So mama, whether you’re in the newborn fog or the toddler chaos: you don’t have to have it all together to belong. Text the mom you just met. Say, “Want to get together?” Small deposits over time build the kind of friendship that can hold you when life gets hard.

@eproctorsutton it was an honor to photograph you precious family with your newest little miracle. 🩵

#momco #newbornphotographer #tallahasseephotographer #momsupportingmoms #christianmotherhood
I used ChatGPT to help me plan out our landscaping this week and I feel like an absolute genius.

The AI rendered a version of what our yard could look like and honestly, even if we only get halfway there, I will be thrilled. Genuinely hopeful. This is not a drill.

Anyway. Back to photography. But also - technology is wild right now and I am here for it.
I'm speaking at MomCo this morning for the first time, and I'll be honest - I'm a little nervous.

The topic is fostering adult friendships, which feels both very important and very personal to me. Because I was part of this group during a season of my life when I really needed it. The fellowship I found there meant more than I can put into words.

Adult friendship is one of those things that doesn't get talked about enough. It takes more intention than it did when we were younger. It doesn't just happen. And when you find it, it holds you in ways you didn't expect.

I'm excited to dive into that conversation with a room full of women who already get it.

Photo by Mary Katherine Fulkerson Photography
I recently read about the day John Lennon and Paul McCartney met.

John was performing at a church function with his high school band. Paul happened to be in the audience. A mutual friend introduced them afterward, and the rest is history.

What gets me is that there's a photo of it. John's classmate had just gotten a camera for his birthday and snapped one during the performance. Nobody in that room knew what they were watching. It was just an ordinary afternoon.

That photo turned out to be a diamond in the rough.

I think about that a lot in my work. The sessions I remember most aren't always the milestone ones. Sometimes it's an in-between moment - a Tuesday afternoon, a candid laugh, a kid doing something totally unremarkable - that ends up being the one a family treasures most.

You don't always know which moments will matter until later. But if you keep capturing them, you'll have a record when you do.

Do you have a photo like that? One that didn't seem like anything at the time but turned out to mean a lot? I'd genuinely love to hear about it.

Memberships and Affiliations

Sarah Gray Photography | Professional Photographer of America Member
Sarah Gray Photography | The Motherhood Anthology Member
National Association of Professional Child Photographers Member 2026-2027

Sarah Gray creates timeless and joyful images that are designed for living room walls and photo albums. A tallahassee photographer, Sarah Gray also serves Thomasville, Crawfordville, St. Marks, Gainesville and throughout the Forgotten Coast and panhandle of north Florida and south Georgia.

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