Christina and Austin | Sarah Gray Photography, Tallahassee, Florida Wedding Photographer

March 14, 2015

The day could not have possibly been more beautiful. Perfect temperatures, minimal wind, crisp sunshine, and in the perfect pocket of spring to have avoided the dreaded pollen that plagues us during Tallahassee springtime. Christina and Austin held their ceremony at a private residence in the heart of town. Beautiful flowers were blooming and their laid back, rustic, pastel decorations were the perfect compliment to the surroundings. Congratulations, you two, on a beautiful wedding and a commitment to each other and to doing marriage right. I can’t wait to see where that love takes you.

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Maternity • Newborns • Babies • Family
Photographer based in Tallahassee, Florida
Master Baby, Family, and Maternity Photographer awarded by @napcp

Here`s the framework I share with every family I work with:

The location is the canvas. Your family is the subject. Your clothing is the paint.

Get the paint right, and everything comes together. Rush it, and even a beautiful Tallahassee evening can fall a little flat in the final images.

That doesn`t mean you need a stylist or a big budget. It means you need a plan and a few principles that actually hold up in real life - with real kids and real closets.

Start with a neutral base. Creams, tans, soft whites, warm grays. These anchor your palette and keep the focus on faces and connection, which is the whole point.

From there, bring in color intentionally. Neutrals with soft blues. Neutrals with blush or sage. Warmer tones in fall - mauve, khaki, olive - especially at a location like Alford Park, where the foliage does a lot of work for you.

Add texture wherever you can. A knit next to a satin blouse. A linen shirt next to a tweed jacket. Texture creates visual depth in a way that flat, solid fabrics just don`t. It`s one of those things that reads beautifully in prints and most families don`t hear about until someone tells them.

Keep patterns small if you use them at all. A delicate floral, a fine stripe, a subtle check - all great. Large, bold patterns pull focus away from faces, and that`s never what we`re going for.

Outfit planning is one of the highest-leverage things you can do before your session. I promise it`s worth the attention.

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Here's the framework I share with every family I work with:

The location is the canvas. Your family is the subject. Your clothing is the paint.

Get the paint right, and everything comes together. Rush it, and even a beautiful Tallahassee evening can fall a little flat in the final images.

That doesn't mean you need a stylist or a big budget. It means you need a plan and a few principles that actually hold up in real life - with real kids and real closets.

Start with a neutral base. Creams, tans, soft whites, warm grays. These anchor your palette and keep the focus on faces and connection, which is the whole point.

From there, bring in color intentionally. Neutrals with soft blues. Neutrals with blush or sage. Warmer tones in fall - mauve, khaki, olive - especially at a location like Alford Park, where the foliage does a lot of work for you.

Add texture wherever you can. A knit next to a satin blouse. A linen shirt next to a tweed jacket. Texture creates visual depth in a way that flat, solid fabrics just don't. It's one of those things that reads beautifully in prints and most families don't hear about until someone tells them.

Keep patterns small if you use them at all. A delicate floral, a fine stripe, a subtle check - all great. Large, bold patterns pull focus away from faces, and that's never what we're going for.

Outfit planning is one of the highest-leverage things you can do before your session. I promise it's worth the attention.

Earlier this week, I had the honor to speak to a room full of moms about friendship. Later this week, I was in a living room with a brand new baby. 🤍

Here’s what I told that group of moms: I’m not a friendship expert. But I’ve spent years walking into homes with families I’ve never met, and I’ve learned that the best moments happen when they don’t feel like they have to perform.

For great photos, a mama doesn’t need a perfect house, perfect hair, or a perfectly behaved toddler. She needs to feel safe. So we talk, we laugh, we find common ground, and somewhere along the way she lets her guard down, relaxes a bit and just gets to be herself with her baby.

Friendship works the same way. Find something in common. Say “me too.” Listen. Let someone see your real life.

So mama, whether you’re in the newborn fog or the toddler chaos: you don’t have to have it all together to belong. Text the mom you just met. Say, “Want to get together?” Small deposits over time build the kind of friendship that can hold you when life gets hard.

@eproctorsutton it was an honor to photograph you precious family with your newest little miracle. 🩵

#momco #newbornphotographer #tallahasseephotographer #momsupportingmoms #christianmotherhood

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I used ChatGPT to help me plan out our landscaping this week and I feel like an absolute genius.

The AI rendered a version of what our yard could look like and honestly, even if we only get halfway there, I will be thrilled. Genuinely hopeful. This is not a drill.

Anyway. Back to photography. But also - technology is wild right now and I am here for it.

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I used ChatGPT to help me plan out our landscaping this week and I feel like an absolute genius.

The AI rendered a version of what our yard could look like and honestly, even if we only get halfway there, I will be thrilled. Genuinely hopeful. This is not a drill.

Anyway. Back to photography. But also - technology is wild right now and I am here for it.

I`m speaking at MomCo this morning for the first time, and I`ll be honest - I`m a little nervous.

The topic is fostering adult friendships, which feels both very important and very personal to me. Because I was part of this group during a season of my life when I really needed it. The fellowship I found there meant more than I can put into words.

Adult friendship is one of those things that doesn`t get talked about enough. It takes more intention than it did when we were younger. It doesn`t just happen. And when you find it, it holds you in ways you didn`t expect.

I`m excited to dive into that conversation with a room full of women who already get it.

Photo by Mary Katherine Fulkerson Photography

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I'm speaking at MomCo this morning for the first time, and I'll be honest - I'm a little nervous.

The topic is fostering adult friendships, which feels both very important and very personal to me. Because I was part of this group during a season of my life when I really needed it. The fellowship I found there meant more than I can put into words.

Adult friendship is one of those things that doesn't get talked about enough. It takes more intention than it did when we were younger. It doesn't just happen. And when you find it, it holds you in ways you didn't expect.

I'm excited to dive into that conversation with a room full of women who already get it.

Photo by Mary Katherine Fulkerson Photography

I recently read about the day John Lennon and Paul McCartney met.

John was performing at a church function with his high school band. Paul happened to be in the audience. A mutual friend introduced them afterward, and the rest is history.

What gets me is that there`s a photo of it. John`s classmate had just gotten a camera for his birthday and snapped one during the performance. Nobody in that room knew what they were watching. It was just an ordinary afternoon.

That photo turned out to be a diamond in the rough.

I think about that a lot in my work. The sessions I remember most aren`t always the milestone ones. Sometimes it`s an in-between moment - a Tuesday afternoon, a candid laugh, a kid doing something totally unremarkable - that ends up being the one a family treasures most.

You don`t always know which moments will matter until later. But if you keep capturing them, you`ll have a record when you do.

Do you have a photo like that? One that didn`t seem like anything at the time but turned out to mean a lot? I`d genuinely love to hear about it.